Helplessness sucks. What if I tried something?

I'm a planner.

• Spend 7 years getting a PhD in Biology - check

• 4 years in Oncology Research using Translationational Bioinformatics - check

• 5 years waiting to marry Ryan - not my choice to wait that long... but check

October 1, 2016: Finally Married!

We started trying to conceive (TTC) 2 months before that because I was 32 and felt the pressure to get started.